What do I do when the boy I like is one of my best friends boyfriend?

so I like this boy and I just started looking him when he got with my best friend and me and him talk everyday but I don't know if he likes me - Brooke from Maiden, North Carolina

The question is how close are you to your best friend? is she the person that has always been there? does she really have your back? is she who go to when your heart broken? or is this someone you refer to as your best friend but isn’t really someone you rely on?

I ask this because if this friend falls under the first description then forget about the boy, he’s not worth throwing your relationship into the fire. And if you’ve already done that most likely if this guys breaks up with her and dates you, he’ll probably do the same to you. But if this is the kind of friend from the first description you may even get forgiveness from her. it still isnt worth it.

Now if its a friend in the second description and you really feel like you and this guy have something, find out if its mutual and be mature. Tell your friend about your feelings and let the chips fall where they may.